Dom/me Space Aftercare
Aftercare of a Dominant who has achieved this space is just as important as the after of the submissive. Often the Dominant is so completely focused during the scene that Their own physical comfort will have been ignored and this is an important fact to remember. Check to see if They are ok physically and make sure that if They do look a little "dreamy" They have somewhere to sit and enjoy the sensation. A high percentage of the impact of Dom/me space is felt by the Dominant after the scene, rather than during it. When I used to play at Nemesis regularly, one member of the staff there who worked behind the bar would often quietly bring Me a cup of coffee with sugar in it, knowing that this would help to level Me off again. |
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I personally find that the act of service is a pleasing contrast to the scene that I have just engaged in, and not only affords a gentle return to the mundane world for the submissive, but for Myself also. Based on My personal observations, the chemicals released during a scene seem to result in a "serration high" afterwards... meaning I want something to drink and a cigarette afterwards! The interaction which can take place between a Dominant and submissive is often a beautiful and mysterious thing, and when a scene arrives at a place where both parties are indeed engaged in the Darkest of all Dances there is an un-earthly connection between both individuals. This is the beauty and poetry of a scene for Me, those moments where the interaction becomes almost mystical. |
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