Frequently Asked Questions
- Do You pro-Domme "just for the money"?
- Do you write Your own testimonials?
- i'm entranced by the whole thing but not sure about pain.
- i'm worried that You have further limits than i do. What will happen?
- Do You use a safeword system?
- How do I book to serve You?
- How do i find out when You are available?
- What happens during service negotiation? What should i expect?
- How may i please You so that You might consider me for a household vacancy?
- i'm new to this and i'm worried i'll be too boring for You
- Do You have sex with your servants or permit sexual service?
- How can i stay up to date with what You are doing?
Do You pro-Domme "just for the money"?
No. I pro-Domme because I love what I do and honestly because I was asked to by so many people. Obviously everyone needs to earn money and charging for My skills means I can do something I adore and more people are able to experience what I can do. It also ensures that overheads are covered as I maintain high levels of hygiene and equipment.
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Do you write Your own testimonials?
All My testimonials are honest and written by those who have served Me. I see no purpose to be served in dishonesty. Obviously I protect the identity of My serves as My levels of confidentiality are very high.
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i'm entranced by the whole thing but not sure about pain.
It's not about pain, it's about sensation. Some people enjoy the sensation of pain, others don't. For some the interaction is about Dominance and submission, others will enjoy the psychological aspects. I happen to enjoy a broad range of things, but not everyone is the same.
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i'm worried that You have further limits than i do. What will happen?
There is no need to worry. I have many servants with whom I am able to indulge My personal tastes so you can be assured that limits will be respected as well as enjoyment had on both sides.
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In My opinion the Dominant should be reading the submissive well enough to not have to rely upon verbal clues (though it's nice to know when something is enjoyed!). This having been said, I insist upon the use of the "traffic light" information system as it is impossible to read a new servant 100% accurately initially. I may agree another system once we are used to each other. Sometimes a servant is unable to use this system, in which case a clear visual signal is used.
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Read through my Rules and follow the directions Contact Me page. Initially you will need to use the appropriate email link you will find there, complete the forms you are given and then, if you pass My requirements at these stages, pay your deposit and finalise a date & time with Me, confirm your attendance by 10am on the day and then be prompt arriving.
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How do i find out when You are available?
You should use the relevant section on the Apply to Serve page, or follow instructions given to you by Me. Many who visit Me arrange their next time of servitude before they leave. Check My calendar and blog to see what I'm up to and when I'm available.
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What happens during service negotiation? What should i expect?
Session negotiation initially depends upon the manner in which you complete your forms. Some prefer a lot of detail, while others prefer just a rough outline. I generally find that once entered into regular service with Me the need for negotiation is reduced. Occasionally I set tasks or utilise other methods to elicit information. I am open and approachable when it comes to negotiating service; though diplomatic when required, I tend to be very direct and demand absolute honesty.
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How may i please You so that You might consider me for a household vacancy?
It is very difficult to gain My personal attention for service. I am very strict about those I will consider and I expect fair service in exchange for My skills. Those who fail to perform their duties properly for Me gain nothing. All prospective household members must approach in writing initially and are called to interview if they pass this stage. Should I accept them, we then work together across a three month trial period and then review the situation. At this point, if we decide to continue, proper training for household membership is entered into. It takes around a year to earn a place with Me.
Always be polite and adhere to My rules. To please Me further, you can perform the following serve: My full pro-Domme title is Mistress Anath Shekhina. My names have meaning, what are they? Display attention to detail in your research, exhibit good manners and My eyes will fall more favourably upon you.
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i'm new to this and i'm worried i'll be too boring for You
Don't worry about being a novice, I've initiated many, either into the Dark Dance itself or given them their first taste of FemmeDom. I'm skilled at supporting someone who is new to this and prepare them psychologically and emotionally while helping them establish what sensations they enjoy and at what level. Because My own tastes are wide and varied and I am skilled at what I do I am able to offer a variety of experiences to the novice and introduce them to things at a very subtle level which can be built on as time passes.
Having the luxury of so many serves to scene with means that I am able to embrace the things I enjoy across a broad range of levels.
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Do You have sex with your servants or permit sexual service?
No I don't have sex with My servants or permit sexual servitude. I am a Dominatrix, not an escort with a crop! I do obviously have sex, and in fact have a naturally high libido, but this is reserved for those I am privately/intimately involved with. I do manipulate the sexual urges and drives of those who serve Me and consider it another tool for Me to use against them! It is always so entertaining to make someone's own flesh betray them!
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How can i stay up to date with what You are doing?
I maintain a personal blog called Mistress Muses where I record events and share My thoughts or musings. It is free to access and you are welcome to read and post comments there.
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